Jock | Advice and its acceptance… Is accepting advice mandatory or not?

There is nothing greater than advice, because the sultan does not turn away from advice if he wants his kingdom to be perpetuated, so if someone comes to him to advise him, he does not despise him and does not reject his word because he is a sultan.

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Advice for rich and poor

There is no one who does not benefit from advice in this world, so a rich man is advised or he is gentle in his dealings, wealth and life, and he is pitied. poor Neither harsh nor serious.

He is advised to be a corrupter of his wealth on earth, drawing his attention to the money of Qarun, with which God caused the earth to swallow him up, so that no trace of his wealth, livelihood and money remained.

The poor are advised not to despair of God’s provision, and that God is the Provider who provides for whomever He wants without account, and not to grieve because of poverty, not to hold grudges against the rich and not to claim that God did not love them in this world.

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Tips for parents and children

Parents are advised not to leave their children lost, to take care of their worldly and religious affairs, to spend on them all that must be spent so that God does not punish them on the Day of Judgment, not to kill them because of poverty and to teach them the religion of their Lord worlds, and not that he orders them to disobey God, nor to obey the accursed Satan.

Parents should not favor anyone boys on the other; because it causes enmity and hatred between children, and they should not be stressed.

Parents should listen to advice and advise each time they are advised.

In life, children must be advised not to cross God’s boundaries in their parents and their religion together, and to fulfill the rights they owe to their parents. Because God severely threatened those who did not show mercy to their parents, and for those who showed mercy, he prepared a blessing on the Day of Resurrection.

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Advice to the head of state

The head of state must fulfill his promise in his state, because the vow is a debt, and the vow is responsible for it on the Day of Judgment. The head of state must know that there is no place for corruption, fighting and killing in his country. And he should know that the people’s rights are theirs over him, and that he should not waste money on something that people in his country are not satisfied with.

The head of state should know that he has no right to steal people’s money for his children’s affairs. Because this is what leads to a painful punishment with God on the Day of Judgment, and he must bear witness to his face, and not say that I don’t care about people, and he must take care of people’s rights over him.

Couple advice

wife In her husband’s house, she does not cross the boundaries of God in her husband; لأنها إذا تعدت حدود الله تكون مثل {امْرَأَتَ نُوحٍ وَامْرَأَتَ لُوطٍ ۖ كَانَتَا تَحْتَ عَبْدَيْنِ مِنْ عِبَادِنَا صَالِحَيْنِ فَخَانَتَاهُمَا فَلَمْ يُغْنِيَا عَنْهُمَا مِنَ اللَّهِ شَيْئًا وَقِيلَ ادْخُلَا النَّارَ مَعَ الدَّاخِلِينَ} [التحريم: 10].

A husband must know his wife’s rights over him; This does not lead him to always mistreat her, such as hitting her, kicking her out of the house, stressing her out, and not feeling sorry for her.

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advice to servants

Servants are required not to associate companions with God, to worship Him as they should, to observe the time of their worship, to pray as they were commanded, to purify themselves as they were commanded, to perform Hajj as they were commanded, do good to people and do good deeds.

Advice to neighbors

Neighbors should also honor and not humiliate themselves, cooperate, respect their own rights, love themselves, not be angry with themselves, not envy themselves.

Tips for tyrants

Tyrants must abandon their tyranny; Because tyranny is what God Almighty hates in this world and in the world to come.

Advice to gentlemen

Gentlemen should be the best people in their lives; Because people don’t like those who are the worst in morality and ethics.

Professor’s advice to students

A professor should advise his students, because his advice is good for them, and students should advise them if their professor advises them. Because the professor knows them more than others.

Advice for a loved one

A lover should advise his beloved; Because he is satisfied with his advice, and he is preserved from temptations, vices, temptations, obsessions, lies, slander and lies.

Advice for animals to people, parents and cohorts

Advice is not only for people, but for animals, advice warns a person of evil and temptation, just as a dog barks, so his barking is advice for those who surround him at the time.

Describing the dog, the poet said: (A dog is the best state *** and the end of wickedness)

It has already been said that the advice is not specific only to people, because the religion advises Muslims at every time of prayer with its cry, so that it is shouted around the house and advised to (continue the prayer, and get up for the prayer, O. Muslims, live for the prayer, live for success.. There is no salvation except through prayer in this world and in the hereafter.. ).

Cohorts should not cross; because the intersection is the corruption of the same relation, and if they do not intersect, then it must do good to all; Because abuse leads to crossroads, and other envy, hatred and disagreement.

Father’s advice to son and son to father

A father must counsel his sons and daughters, and warn them not to fall into fearful and insignificant things in their worldly lives. because if he does not advise them, he will not succeed either in this world or in the hereafter, and he must advise them about religion; That is why they were saved during his lifetime and after his death, so their advice would be a clue to foolishness.

And the father should advise the children, just as the children should advise their father, so they warn him against a dishonorable act, and the father should not think that they are young, and should not take advice from them; Because if he gets worse, he gets worse himself.

Tips of the night and the world

Night is advice to every man; Because if it turns black, no one is allowed to go out, and the blackness of the night is a sign of advice. Because God made him a garment: {And he made us a garment (10)} [النبأ: ١٠]

If a man does not advise the darkness of the night, he will only be met by death, as the Arabs said: “The night no longer hides misery.” And at night he tells people: “Stay in your homes, because I am desolate, my evils are many; Because in me lives a creature besides you, and I am the time of possession, and I am the time of magic, and I am the time of evil, so sleep a little , and come closer to your Lord at night, because that is good for all of you.

The world advises its seeker every day, but people are not indifferent to it, and the world says to them: Flee from me, for my refuge is error, my home is evil, my affairs are corrupt, and my family is in trouble:

I am the world, I am the abode of corruption

I am the world, I am the abode of obstinacy

And people play with me without memory

And the worst people are my friends, my servants

I always invite my children

Leave passion.. leave jihad

And who hopes for my refuge… in vain

And who wants to buy me.. in a recession

And who hopes for my time.. in hypocrisy

And who hopes for a serf… in my economy

Advice from scientists

The advice of scholars is a guide to the ignorant in this world, and scholars are more worthy of advice than the ignorant and more knowledgeable than them, and it is the duty of people to advise them all if the scholars advise them about something. their world and their religion.

Oh people, I knew that good and evil are not equal in scale, so do good, and leave evil to meet the All-Merciful, and know that good is often rewarded, and evil is the way to hell fire, and God does not let evil down. to the status of the good, so that both have a reward with the God of tenderness and mercy.